Guy I’m dating makes no effort if I don’t orgasm…red flag!?

I’ve been dating a guy for about 2 months, sleeping together for 1 month. He’s great in a lot of ways, but something is really bothering me.

Sometimes I orgasm during sex, sometimes I don’t—which I think is normal with someone new. But when I don’t, he makes zero effort to help me finish. No checking in, no trying, nothing. As soon as he’s done, sex is over.

I haven’t said anything directly, but it’s very obvious when I don’t orgasm. And honestly, the idea of having to ask him to care in the moment feels like a turn-off.

What’s bothering me most is that I would never do that to a partner. I always make sure they’re taken care of.

So I’m trying to figure out: is this just a communication issue, or is this a sign he’s selfish in bed and not someone I should invest in?