6 Year Friendship Ended After I Found Out About Her Boyfriend's Past

Moving On

I'm going to try and shorten this story as much as I can. Basically I had this female friend who had been seeing this guy for 2 months (they met a month before) and I developed this gut feeling over time about some red flags I noticed. About 3 weeks ago I decided to search the internet and found he wasn't using his real last name on his socials. When I searched the name I found I discovered he is a lifetime Registered Child Sex Offender. I told her as soon as she woke up that morning. She was livid at me stating "everyone has a past" and that it was not my information to find out about and tell her.

Having known her as long as I have, I know the one thing that angered her the most was that I found out something that she did not want me to know about. It's happened multiple times in the past. Whenever I found out or figured out something she wanted to keep secret from me, she became enraged. She usually didn't talk to me for a fewdays then always made me the bad guy and her the victim and I had to apologize, even if i wasn't at fault.

Anyways, back to the present situation. After a few days of some angry back and forth texting we ended up blocking each other and going NC for 2 weeks. I reached out to apologize via email bc it was the only thing that was not yet blocked. She replied the next day but from the wording and perceived tone of her emails it was clear she had no real intention of making any sort of attempt to reconcile. She demanded some unreasonable expectations of me if we were to continue being friends. One thing, in particular, I was not willing to agree to so we ended it.

After she gave me her ultimatum I no longer felt bad or even cared that our friendship was over. It's just very confusing for me and everyone I've told about this situation and impossible for anyone to wrap their heads around.

The takeaway is that she chose an unattractive, really short, possibly gay, unemployed, convicted child molester and Registered Sex Offender that she'd only known for 3 months over a close friend of 6 years. I suppose we weren't really as close as she'd always led me to believe.

So....FUCK HER.

BYE ✌️🚪

Posted Apr 4, 2026, 1:22 PM UTC

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