36[M4F]#italy #online how can a man in their 30s find his soulmate?

M4F

Hey, I’m Mattia, 36, from Italy.

I’ve never really been a fan of dating apps. Swiping, small talk, ghosting… it all feels a bit empty. I prefer things that grow naturally, with time and real conversations, so here I am.

I work as a programmer, which I enjoy, even if it melts my brain sometimes. Outside of work I’m into pretty classic nerd stuff: videogames, anime, and I go to the gym to balance it all out. I also have two dogs, so yeah, I’m definitely an animal person.

I’m 175 cm, a bit chubby, extroverted and friendly. I like joking around, talking about random topics, and I’m usually easy to get along with. I can be a bit sarcastic/playful, but I know when to be serious too.

I’m looking for something real, but without pressure. Just getting to know each other, talking during the day, sharing little things, laughing, and seeing where it goes.

If you’re also tired of superficial stuff and want something more genuine, feel free to message me. Let’s keep it simple and real.

Posted Apr 4, 2026, 4:05 PM UTC · locked

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