28 [M4F] Interested in the other side
For as long as I can remember being interested in sex/kink, I have been confident in knowing that I am submissive. I have submitted to a number of people, and enjoyed practically every single moment of it.
Lately, however…there has been a thought that I have not been able to get out of my head, and it has centered around blackmail.
I find the concept and kink of blackmail a really big turn on, and more and more lately I have wondered what it would feel like to be on the other side of the dynamic. How might it feel to be the one in control?
If you are nervous or worried about dipping your toes into this kink, I know exactly how you feel. I’ve been where you are, and I mean it when I say that the excitement you feel thinking about being in a dynamic pales in comparison to the excitement you feel in the deep end.
I think I would be best fit with someone who has not had experience in this kink before as I do not have experience being the dominant in a dynamic. If you feel I might be the right person you are looking for, I look forward to hearing from you.
Posted Apr 5, 2026, 2:45 AM UTC