Too Big for city, and best seating position.

Hi all, I have been a Sedan driver my whole life. I presently own an a elantra and also bought 9e. Elantra has amazing seats and is very nimble in the city, I just feel xev9e is too big and too high to drive in peak traffic. Also I feel seated too high compared to both Be6 and elantra.

Is it because it's new for me and do all, of you feel the same?

Also as my elantra has 8 way seats it's easy to find a perfect seat but with xev9e still unable to find that sweet spot any recommendations?