What would you consider a good salary in Charlotte?

Just as the question suggests. Considering making a move from NYC, to Charlotte. Main draws are the ability to potentially own a home, slower life style for my little one but I am concerned about the pay gap.

For context, in NYC I’m spending roughly 60% of my take home on expenses. The other 40% will never amount to enough to afford a house.

Bonus points if you’re a nurse and want to drop your salary. 😂