Scorpio guy is giving mixed signals?

I , a Sagittarius (20F), have been talking to a Scorpio (22M) for about 2 months now. I gave him my number, I tend to impulsively go after what catches my eye, he seemed cute and always gave me a “look” that for some reason seemed intriguing.

(side note; I’ve never been in a relationship, I don’t have much experience with men, and I very shy. I have high functioning autism so I’m not the best with social cues/relationship structures in general. He doesn’t know this, many people don’t. It takes a while for me to open up.)

We’ve hung out about 2 times (our work schedules don’t match up often, but we’ve planned things). It was never wrecking, and kind of draining? But maybe it was because I don’t know him well and I was nervous to see him.

We mostly send daily messages like, “Hope your day is going well.” , “Good morning, have a good day at work, take care!”.

Very routine. Everyday. Now it’s mostly me sending these messages, late I’ve find myself doing so only because I feel obligated to. I’m the one who gave him my number, I should stay consistent, right?

Thing is, I’ve become bored. I still don’t know much about him. He hasn’t been responding much, or messaging first at all like in the beginning. He’d respond around 1-2 days at a time and then pop in and say “we should hangout soon!”, them completely go silent for a day or two. It’s confusing, and now the thought of hanging out with him makes me anxious in a negative way.

I feel like I’m forcing myself to like him still. I’m starting to feel annoying and like I’m dragging this on when I really am 70% done with this whole thing. I’d feel bad ghosting him. But I don’t want to be to be that cruel, I’m trying my best to make sure he knows I’m still here whilst trying to juggle all my other life things I have going on. This is just draining me more, he may just be busy with work or life things but HE TELLS ME NOTHING NOW. I feel like he’s bored of me but is leading me on.

When I feel a sudden change, I leave. When I feel like I’m forcing a connection. When I feel something is bringing me unnecessary stress, I leave. I have a common pattern of doing that in friendships, I am fully away of this. I’m feeling the strong urge to leave.

Is this normal for Scorpios? I have friends that told me to stay away from this guy BECAUSE he’s a Scorpio, but I like to give people a chance and I’ve never actually talked to a Scorpio before so I’d like to have my own experience.

TLDR; I gave a Scorpio guy my number because I found him alluring. He hardly tells me things about himself anymore, I hardly know him. He is communicating less. He feels very “scripted “ and monotone. He’d say he want to see me then disappear. I no longer even want to see him with how he’s making me feel. I feel obligated to keep trying to talk to him because I approached him first. I’m not bored and drained by just think of him, I feel guilty for feeling this way. Should I completely ghost the situation and move one before it progresses? Am I doing too much ? Or is this some sort of “Scorpio thing” that I don’t understand?

Any advice / feedback is appreciated, please call me out if I’m the error in this situation ! :)