Asked a girl out on our first meeting. But feeling something is a bit off

Ive been on a few dates in the past and most were fun. And all of my dates either me or the girl will suggest a cheaper, more quiet place to hang out and have time for ourselves.

But this is the the first time this girl took me off my game. I suggested we meet on this fairly new cafe that recently opened up around midway between our work offices. But she keeps diverting the conversation to other, more expensive and luxurious places in the area. She even suggested a bar after dinner, to which I politely declined, since Im driving. Im not broke but I dont feel comfortable spending that much from the get go on a first date.

This is already dumb that I posted this but should I ditch and ghost her off?

Posted Apr 5, 2026, 2:56 AM UTC

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