Seeking unbiased input/opinions

One of the brothers of a very humble, faithful and gorgeous woman I am intending to court - I assume she senses it but might be not convinced I will ask her out when I next see her - seems quite adamant in finding “better” or “more suitable” partners for her, out of his own biases and insecurities I assume, arguing I’m not wealthy, God fearing or service oriented enough. Without going into too much detail or giving into gossip/slander, I have prayed about this and my discernment and prudence, alongside with various nudges from above, have lead me decide on formal pursuit, which I will invite her into next time we see each other, and her father afterwards, should she accept/agree.

My concern and question is whether I should address his brother’s intrusion with him, with both of them or just her, or simply continue my life and walk with Christ and let Him take the wheel as I pursuit this daughter of His. I feel her brother is being overprotective or borderline controlling and taking advantage of the fact that I’ve let him into my life too. I’m not perfect, but that is also true of every single man apart from Jesus so, although I do not feel entitled to her just because of the connection, compatibility and shared purpose we seem to have, I do feel God’s hand pulling us closer and weaving a story for a higher purpose.

Please let me know what you guys think of this and what would be the wisest, most loving and virtuous thing to do in your opinion. I would highly appreciate some unbiased input. Thank you, God bless.