43M Never Dated -Is It Too Late to Start, or Should I Focus on Other Things?.
hi, I'm a 43m, and I've never actually dated. Growing up, I was super focused on school and work. I started working at 14, and from 15 to 23, I was my late grandma's carer, which was a really tough but important time in my life. Her death hit me hard when I was 27 when i got my longest job. After that, I threw myself into my job i loved but but it's demanding, which mean's I recently had to leave because it was too hard on my knees and arms. I've got a new job now that's easier on my body, and while I miss my old job, this one's better for me in the long run.
My parents always wanted me to date and find someone, but I was so focused on my career. Now, I kind of regret not exploring that part of life. I've slowed down a lot recently and been spending more time with my parents, which I really enjoy. I'm healthy, and I'm proud of what I've accomplished, but for the last three months, I've been wondering "what if" when it comes to dating. I'm thinking about maybe trying to find a companion, but I also wonder if it's too late.
On top of that, I've been thinking about going to college. I dropped out school young and never went to college, and I feel like there's still a lot I want to learn.
what do you think? Should I try dating now, or is it too late? What other things could I do to add more to my life? Any advice would be appreciated!
Posted Apr 5, 2026, 3:00 AM UTC