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Hi friends. I hope the nausea, cramping, bloating, and anxiety is being kind to us all tonight. I’m the 4th time mom who hasn’t told her partner about the pregnancy yet and I’m here with a few updates.

  1. I still haven’t told my husband. 😳 I’m 6+5 today and I know I need to woman up and tell him but my peaceful bubble feels easier than the potential disappointment and panic.

  2. I finally got to confirm my dates and see a growing bean with a fluttering heartbeat on Thursday.

  3. I did the Sneak Peek test the day of my ultrasound and I just got the results back. It says girl. 🥹 We have 3 boys and even the genetic testing from my blighted ovum in 2022 found male DNA. I’m floored and didn’t think it was possible for me to make a girl.

Ok. That’s all. Thank you for being my secret keepers. I hope my next update is that I told my husband and he is processing but coming around to it all.

Sending love from a tired mom in Florida. 💛

Posted Apr 5, 2026, 3:00 AM UTC

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