36[M4F]Ladies on this sub, what are you looking for?

What makes you respond to a post on here? I ask that because...well someone has to.

The thing I hate about these posts is how everyone plays their best parts up to an extreme, or uses some sort of clever analogy to convey what they want in order to garner some sort of response, but at the most of the time response are few and far between and you’ve set unrealistic expectations for the ones that do respond. Like Im a little goofy or quirky at times so I make a goofy post; but now I feel locked into that one side of myself and it makes conversations unnatural and hard to really go anywhere because guess what? Im not just a goofy goober Im also surprisingly self aware, emotionally intelligent, and serious at times. People are complex and its impossible to convey the full range of ones personality in just a few short paragraphs. Same goes for when we post the things we are looking for in a partner. At the end of the day I just want someone real that I have good chemistry with, can relate to, and find attractive.

I think people can relate on a wide variety of things and chemistry, and personality are much more Important then general intrests and checking every box on your perfect partner list but neither of those things can be conveyed without actual interaction. So shoot your shot. Worst case we waste a little bit of eachothers time, best case we build somthing together that makes all of this worth it.