Books where fmc choose om over the mmc or neglect him

heyy readers!! so Ik we've every few books like these but i've read so many books where the mmc chooses or prioritizes ow over fmc and she tries to save the relationship but has to leave heart broken and then he eventually groves! and now I want the reverse.

I want a book where the FMC is the one who messes up like she chooses om, or keeps prioritizing someone else over the MMC. No cheating between the main couple is fine but I do want that emotional betrayal where she repeatedly prioritizes om's feelings over mmc and ignore the warnings given by the mmc!

I don't want mmc to be alpha or toxic just a normal guy who tries, maybe accepts it for a while, but then eventually gets hurt enough to walk away or give her an ultimatum.

so basically i want:

~ FMC chooses OM / neglects MMC

~MMC quietly suffers but eventually leaves or fmc face some consequences

~angst + emotional damage

~no over-the-top alpha behavior pls

I want her to grovel pls!! if you have recs pls do share :) tysm 🩷🥹