Experienced orthodontost/dentist suggestion for fixing wrong braces treatment

Hi I've undergone braces treatment for the past 5 years on and off with two different orthodontist in this span. There are several things that are messed up right now like by bite doesn't sit comfortably which causes neck pain and the space for my tongue is reduced so it's causes voice issues for me. I've consulted some orthos recently but each of them are saying different things. Some are gas lighting me that it is all correct only and no one seems to understand the discomfort I'm in. Are there any experienced orthodontists anyone can recommend who is willing to understand and fix my issues. Thanks in advance.

Tldr: need experienced empathetic and honest dentist/orthodontist suggestion to fix my messed up braces treatment of 5 years.