My 19F friend made out with me M22 and I’m confused
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I met Hannah (fake name) in August or September last year and we’ve slowly become friends.
We work at the same place so we see each other most days. I started flirting with her, as friends do, but she told me we’re just friends and she likes women. I said that was fine and I’m happy to stay friends.
Then, on Thursday night, Hannah asked to hang out at my place. Unfortunately, I couldn’t make it, so we agreed to meet at a park instead. Some of her texts, like “I just want to be with you please” and “I just really want to see you tonight”, seemed a bit odd, but I didn’t think much of it.
At the park, we chatted and had a good time. Then she asked if I wanted to make out. I was surprised but didn’t ask her about her sexuality. She wasn’t sober but not enough to affect her decision. We ended up kissing. Consent was given on both sides. If it’s relevant, she kissed with her tongue.
About half an hour later, she asked if I wanted to eat her out. I declined because she was drunk and I was sober.
The kiss was amazing, but now I’m confused about what it means. I’ve never kissed anyone before, so I’m not sure if this feeling is normal after your first kiss. It could be confusion about not liking men or a combination of both.
TL;DR: A friend kissed me and I’m confused about what it means.
Posted Apr 5, 2026, 10:15 AM UTC