People who come out the closet years into a marriage make me sick

People who come out years into a marriage make me sick

You know why it makes me sick?

It’s because you’re perfectly aware of your sexuality prior to marriage. I don’t for one second believe those who say they never truly realised the fact they have said sex attraction well into their 20s/30s or even later. I think they are just saying that to try and not make them look too bad.

Especially when you have had kids. I was listening to a woman on YouTube sharing her coming out story and how she claims she never truly realised her sexual orientation until her 30s. She has a son with her husband and she decides to come out. She met another woman leaving her husband. He is at home taking care of their son while the ex wife is living at her new partners place.

The husband is alone in bed at night while that heartless b*tch is sleeping with some homewrecker. How she can sleep in bed with that woman with a smile on her face knowing how she broke his heart is sickening.

In these situations we are supposed to congratulate the person for coming out. For being brave enough to come out. I’m not homophobic but I know what she did was wrong. She isn’t some brave person. She’s someone who lied to her ex husband into believing she loved him when she never did to hide who she truly is. A homosexual. She definitely knew her attraction to woman was there before she married him.

Apparently they are still on speaking terms for the son but even still. Stories like this make my blood boil.

This wasn’t a marriage she was forced into either. She lives in the USA I believe and she said early in the video she wanted to marry him but I don’t buy her story.

So yeah, my unpopular opinion is that those who come out during marriage and with kids are selfish and it’s the straight person in this situation who deserves all the support. Not the liar.

What’s your opinion on this sort of situation?

Do the Gay/Lesbian people deserve any support or should it all go to the straight person who wrong wronged and tricked into loving someone who never loved them back