This is for Man, yes you in Pune

Stop with this desperation. What is wrong with you? Ask yourself what Reddit is for. It’s anonymous. Within the last 12 hours in fact maybe at least this year I’ve seen so many such posts.

One man wants “a female companion” to join him for a house party. One wants to go to Manam. Another wants a foodie partner.

Don’t you understand this is not how you get a girl’s attention? or anyone’s attention actually. How do you expect people to just show up because you posted a request?

And bhai before you come at me, most of the time when men genuinely reply to such posts, the OP doesn’t even bother responding unless there’s a female profile picture.

It’s honestly funny and sad at the same time.

Instead work on yourself in real life. Make friends. Socialise more. Build a personality offline. Nobody is going to magically appear because you typed “chill vibes” under an anonymous username

Instead of making these posts, work on yourself in real life.

Go out and actually build a social circle.

Improve your fitness.

Dress better.

Smell better.

Take care of your hygiene.

Open yourself up to other cultures.

Get a decent haircut. Not some Kabir Singh look.

If you want to understand women better, go read discussions in spaces like r/TwoXIndia and actually listen. Stop assuming. Start observing.

No one is going to join you like this. And when I see “chill vibes blah blah” it just sounds worse. This is anonymous. Think about how we’ve shaped this country socially. Why would anyone trust random posts like that?

Anyway rant over. But please stop with these desperate posts just to get a girl to talk to you.

ps. Credit to u/Logical-Comfort5844