I 21f caught my husband (44M) recording women from his job and anywhere else you can think of.

First time posting so I’m sorry if it’s all over the place but as the title says I caught my husband recording women’s asses from work and any other place we been to. I found them hidden in an app to store pictures. As well as taking screenshots and videos off the internet to watch. I’m not sure what to do I’m currently 31 weeks pregnant and feel so overwhelmed. I’m just so mad, hurt and upset about all of this. There’s this specific woman from his work that he records over and over and he seems to get really close up and personal. I’m not sure if it’s someone that’s caught his attention or if she’s trying to get his because looking at the video there’s times where she’ll see the phone and kind of bend over or do something sort of provocative. I just feel so stressed rn wondering if there’s anything else going on at work. I’ve talked to him before about how I feel over him watching the women online and he just gets sort of annoyed and defensive saying he’s sorry and that he doesn’t know why he did it. How I’m the most gorgeous woman he’s met and how he’ll be better etc but it just never does if anything he tries harder to hide everything. I’m rambling now but I just need advice on how to talk about this with him and make him understand he’ll just push me away if he keeps all this up.

Posted Apr 5, 2026, 10:21 AM UTC

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