i can't orgasm w my gf

english is not my first language, sorry for the grammar.

I'm honestly just looking for someone who used to have a similar experience like mine then got over it and was actually able to orgasm.

I've been dating my gf since January but we've known each other longer than that and yes, we've done the dirty but idk why I can't orgasm at all. fingers, tongue, even vib and still nothing. I feel guilty about it so I make sure that she gets off every single time.

the problem is she doesn't know that I'm not actually reaching my "pinnacle" and she asks me if everything is good and I just tell her yes 😭 don't get me wrong it FEELS good but I can never just truly get there but when I do it myself, I reach it with no problem at all.

I've read some people say that it's a block and that I have to be emotionally invested for me to feel it but that just can't be true for me cuz I fully trust her and I'm not shy at all so idk why I just can't 😭

am I the problem? I know i should probably just tell her cuz she won't be mad but then she has to come w the realization that she's never given me an orgasm and I honestly feel kinda bad for that.

but I see these posts about wlw couples giving each other multiple orgasms and I'm scared I'll never reach it w her. idk how long I can keep it up before she notices 😔

this post was longer than I intended lmao