Sport bra support

Yo what’s up detrans community? I am coming today with an inquiry on “bras”

Im detrans still gender questioning tho, still fantasize about being a faggoty flat chested boy knowing it is a biological unreality for me @ this time.

I have been trying to step more into my gender expansiveness as I am etc.

I also have fantasies, not necessarily of being a woman but of being a mother and partner , using my breasts to feed my children, (even tho kids and partner are not in picture atm) and also I do enjoy them sexually with partners , but not socially!! (I wonder how many of us here and also those currently transitioning share this experience!)

And then maybe down the line considering top surgery ?

Sharing these contradictions - maybe you share these same sentiments??

Anyhoo, I hate bras , sensory hell! But also what they represent: control over women’s bodies, contorted to look a certain way for the male gaze, etc.

Binders: constrict and cause anxiety in my body if I wear for longer than 5 minutes.

I need something that holds me well (I’m like a C cup), like a sports bra, but also, is sensory friendly… I’m desperately searching for something that works despite this being many years in the making.

I use Nike sport bra with adjustable straps for workouts and go braless otherwise…. I try to wear tight crop tops to hold my breasts, but they too have their limitations in support.

I heavily consider breast reduction almost daily, but the results I see online look often gnarly, and make me wish I could have kids already, to do ‘the full thing’ or get that radical reduction 4 dat itty titty life!

TLDR: iso sensory friendly sport bras that do not define breasts but are more functional.

Also would love to hear from those dealing with similar daily struggles and what has/has not worked!