Advice on hair colour prefrence vs what suits me

I need advice on what colour to keep my hair. So I had my hair copper before and it honestly really suited me. I feed like it always looked good leaving the house. Always looked good in pictures. And my hair was much healthier as no bleach needed. Blonde hair honestly washes me out a bit as I am VERY pale. So i feel i look helthier with copper hair.

The dilema is because even though I know which one looks better somehow in my heart I feel like I am a blonde. Whenever I make some kind of character wether it is in games or otherwise I always default to making them blonde to make them feel like me. And when I realise I am not blonde at the time I have a bit of an identity crisis. I guess in games I always think blonde looks the best on my character too. But as I look better in copper I cant help but think maybe I would get used to it?

What would you do in my situation? Go with what feels like "you" or what suits you the best? I would apreciate any feedback. Thanks