31 [M4F] UK/Online - Polyamory can be lonely - help me fix that!
I think that monogamous people think polyamory means you’re always busy all the time, but for me it’s been quite the opposite. Most people where I live are monogamous, which I assume is the case everywhere, and touch averse. Being poly just makes the differences starker, especially as I am single. I know for some people polyamory is a lifestyle but for me it is part of my identity - I have and would struggle to date monogamously.
I’m looking to build community, and hopefully more. I would love to speak about polyamory, our experiences, but also just general geekery. I am an entomologist and a writer and I love game design - I’d be so excited to hear about what gets you going!
Outside of I have been raised in a culture that is generally averse to and ashamed of physicality and touch. Part of the community I’d like to have in my life would be people who are happy to chat about and/or explore elements of this, but who are understanding that it may take some time! I am similarly patient and understanding so welcome others going through a similar time.
Thank you so much for reading :) if you made it this far, please tell me what your favourite animal is!
Posted Apr 5, 2026, 3:13 PM UTC