Do any other trans pansexuals have difficulty with knowing what you are vs what you're attracted to?

I'm AFAB, and I identity as a Demigirl [She/They]. But it's hard for me to tell if I'm actually a Demigirl or if I haven't accepted that I'd truly be myself if I was masculine. Once every few months I think "Am I a guy? If I was a guy I'd have this aesthetic and this haircut and it'd be so cool, etc] but I might just have these thoughts because I find those masc things attractive on other people, and not because I myself want to have those things. I'm not uncomfortable with being fem at all, I always dress and act anywhere between fem and androgynous, and I'm totally okay with that. I only really have gender dysphoria with my chest but it's only some days and only in certain outfits, so it might just be insecurity. I don't know.

Does anyone else have this problem? [Also lmk if I should post this on r/Pansexual instead]