How do you guys message people on Reddit? I do get DMs every now and then, I'm wondering how do these people have the confidence while I can't even gather the courage to reach out when I find cute guys online. Like all these thoughts going through my head: What if I'm a creep? Would they even reply?

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Can you resonate what I'm saying? 😭

I really wanna make more gay/bi friends, but I just don't have the ball to reach out to people. And most of all, I'm bad at carrying the conversation.

Posted Apr 5, 2026, 3:14 PM UTC

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