[F4A] Be the secret influence in my life

I am looking for someone to be the secret influence in my life. Someone who enjoys pulling the strings from the dark and enjoys messing with my daily life, my interests, hobbies, relationships, social situations, sex life and more.

I am currently in a relationship of two years and I'd love the idea of someone pulling the strings and play with me, as long as it is creative, thoughtful, intelligent and a little bit (or not just a little bit) evil.

Kinks: orgasm control, humiliation, degradation, dehumanization, embarrassment, public embarrassment, semi-public play, outdoors, diet control, spending control, dress codes, orgasm control, intox play

Limits: scat, underage, pics/vids, findom, breath play, body writing

toys: suction cup dildo, vibrator wand, handcuffs