Help for a baby stripper!

So I want to get into dancing! I’ve wanted to for years but always had a boyfriend or lived with family or something in the way that prevented me.

I’m finally going to be in a situation in about a month where I can start. I’ve been researching all this time on everything, but I just need to get some direct answers on some sort of stupid questions.

First: what the hell do I do in private dances? I get the concept that it’s a lap dance basically, or that sometimes they just want to talk or will ask for something specific or whatever. But idk how long I’m supposed to dance for, how I know what they want me to do exactly, how much I should be getting tipped the whole time… like give me a run down on what a private dance looks like step by step for dummies lol

Second: seriously though what should I be practicing the most? I know pole isn’t as important as it’s made out to be… but I’m sure I should be preparing myself in some way and I honestly don’t know what that preparation looks like.

Third: Auditions. Am I supposed to come like all ready with the outfit on under some sweatpants? Or like can I change when I get there? How does an audition even work? Do I need to prepare a routine or like what am I looking at here? Again, for dummies lol

I hope y’all can answer my questions and that it’s okay I’m not technically a dancer *right now*. I just reallllyyy want some advice and idk who to go to for this.