[Update] Looking for advice on dating a lovely trans woman!

Hello r/ActualLesbiansOver25! I'm here with a happy update.

About 6 months ago, I (a cis lesbian) posted asking for advice on how to have a sensitive conversation about sex with a hot trans lesbian who I was very early into dating, but with whom I sensed a lot of potential. She found the post in the wild (apparently my writing style is distinctive! 🙈) and that sparked off the conversation earlier than I'd expected... but it went really well and ended up being a great trust-building moment.

Fast forward to now and we've been dating for six months! Honestly, it's been even better than I'd hoped. The sex is fantastic — I've really enjoyed the new experiences I've gotten to have with her. The emotional support, trust, and adoration are *also* incredible. I did not expect to feel so safe, so seen, so treasured by anyone, but with her I really do. She's everything I'd been looking for in a partner *and more* in ways I couldn't have predicted. (Like, at one point we sat down and compared our wishlists and we both checked off every one of the other's wishes. 🥹)

And just to reiterate, the sex is *great* — definitely the best of my life. I had nothing to be worried about! 💖 10/10 experience, would recommend to anyone!

My gf says: "To all the trans lesbians out there: you CAN find the hot (sometimes!) toppy babe of your dreams" ✨