Is it finally time for me, 42M to leave her, 43F?

3 kids 15, 10, 6.

Here's what happened today, but this is any typical weekend day.

After going to bed after midnight so that I could set up our egg hunt and put all the baskets out, I wake up at the same time as her. I start to cook breakfast and realize I left some stuff for Easter in the car. She was the last one to use my car, so I ask her for the keys. Tells me nonchalantely she left the keys in my car (overnight, door unlocked). I respond with "you left them in the car overnight?" Not angry or mad, just mildly surprised.

That was it. End of story. I spend the rest of the day getting berated because I ruined her morning by asking about my keys. I do all the laundry, clean 2 of our rooms, spend 3 hours making her family Easter dinner, all the while being told that I'm selfish, abusive, controlling, yada yada yada. I didn't even eat. I took a ride in the car, parked, and vegged out on youtube for 2 hours until I felt calm enough to head home.

This is constant. I try to avoid any kind of verbal contact in the morning, but one little thing sets this woman off and the CRAZIEST crap that makes zero sense just starts heading my way.

According to this woman, I am the most vile and disgusting form of life that ever existed. Oh, and I'm a child too. Lets forget when we got married after her 29th birthday, her dad mentioned that I needed to put her phone bill, student loans, and gas card in my name...despite her making slightly more money than me. He had been paying up to that point.

It's gotta be it, right?