Lesson Learned

I was talking to a girl I found super attractive like I enjoyed everything about her physically and was very excited to get to know her.

But SubhanAllah I noticed something in her. She was a very negative person, always viewed everything from a negative lens, never seemed happy and slowly I noticed I was less and less excited about her. I just didn’t want to be around her much anymore. But the worst part is because I was interacting with her energy, I started becoming more negative, became more paranoid, wasn’t happy anymore and I was a really happy guy in the past before talking to her and was very positive and upbeat.

This has taught me a deep lesson. If you prioritize a women looks and you don’t like her core, you will be in a marriage where you will hate even seeing the girl herself and will run away from coming home. So the looks will do you absolutely nothing.

I’ve learned prioritizing a women thats religious, sees the positive in things, is calm and peaceful, and someone that’s soft naturally without any man is a women that I should look for while having attraction of course.