I need a tool that tells me not just where to post, but when to shut up.

Seriously. I'm good at finding communities. I can write decent content. My problem is over-engagement. I'll post something that gets a good discussion going, and then I'll hover. I'll reply to every single comment, often within minutes. I think I'm being responsive, but I've realized it can kill the organic conversation. It starts to feel like a customer support thread, not a community discussion. Other members stop jumping in because the OP (me) is dominating the replies. I've been looking for a way to discipline myself. I wonder if a tool could help by analyzing thread patterns and suggesting 'peak engagement' windows versus 'step back' periods. I use Reoogle for discovery and timing, but I need something for engagement temperance. Maybe a simple dashboard that says, 'Your post is live. The community is discussing. Wait 6 hours before replying to non-critical comments.' Does this resonate with anyone? Have you found a way to be present without suffocating your own post's discussion?