Flirting with a married woman

That's right, I'm stuck in deep mud!

short story first: She's 32, and I'm 30. She's married, has no kids, and I've been single for 4 months now, no kids.

We met a couple of months ago at work, before I was single, and we hit off well. we feel comfortable around each other and talking to each other and we care about each other.

Despite looking at each other a lot, either at work or outside of work gatherings with some friends, we've never texted that much.

Recently, about one month ago, after a gathering, that changed, and we started texting almost every day (mostly funny flirting, nothing sexually or suggestive so far).

With all the signs she seems to send off, I'm inclined to think that she has an interest in me as well.

How do I navigate this since she's married, and in one way, I want to be in the other guy's shoes and have a life with her, but on another, wouldn't that be messed up?

my intentions are not just fuck and move on, obviously and in the end, it would be her choice and her decision to make?!

I'm lost here... 🤦‍♂️😅