I wish my bf was a lil dominate

My bfs know about my kinks and desires but i always wished that I hope he was naturally like that. Before dating him i was more of confused if he is a sub or dom later i found out he is a dom but not the way i want. Always telling him what to do and what not to do is often annoying specially when we're in the moment. He says just say whatever you want, but always?? you already know what im into. + it also makes me feel like im forcing things onto him, i did ask him what do you want instead? he said "whatever you want" w that dry response i felt like is he even interested in me anymore. What about his needs? why doesn't he say so and to be clear he did told me he likes what i like but it doesn't look like it.