32 M4F - wine/coffee or dine/lunch before anything

In a dead bedroom situation.

I'm looking for someone to meet for a drink/lunch to vibe check first before anything heavy. Ideally we'll have conversations that tickle our brain cells, on our seats and under the sheets.

I don't mind your age, even if you're older than me. I dont mind your race too. Best if you're in the same situation as me.