[M4F] Looking for a long term OA with someone in EST
I really have no idea how to start this off. I’ve had 1 other OA that lasted 3 months but ultimately didn’t work out. I’m hoping to find another meaningful connection here.
I’m a 26M in EST. I’m 6’2’’ 240 with hazel eyes. I keep my head shaved but you’ll probably never see me without a hat. I’m hairy with a dad bod and a full time wearer of glasses. Not married but in a long term committed relationship.
I’m a blue collar worker but I’m definitely kinda nerdy. I work in an industry I really enjoy and I’m currently studying to further my career in this field.
My primary hobbies are gaming and listening to music. My favorite genres are hip hop and the girliest pop music you can think of. I almost always have a song stuck in my head. Right now it’s Busy Woman by Sabrina Carpenter. I’m currently trying to make running and working out a hobby but as of now it’s still a chore. I’m very much an introvert but greatly appreciate extrovert energy.
I’m looking for the excitement of finding a connection with someone new. I’m hoping to find someone to chat with long term. I’m really looking for anyone who can be someone new in my life for a while. Please be consistent, reliable, and available outside of work hours. Life gets busy and obviously this is secondary but it sucks to have a good conversation go ghost with no explanation. This is an online affair, but I’d really like to meet someone close enough for occasional in person visits if we decide to keep talking.
I’m open to sharing pictures after getting to know each other a little bit, and definitely early on. Not looking for anything immediately sexual, I won’t bring it up unless you initiate. Not really looking to change anyones situation but with enough time who knows.
I swear I’m not AI, I just sound robotic because I’m awkward and I suck at talking about myself. Thanks for reading!
Posted Apr 6, 2026, 1:23 PM UTC