Indijess

I am going to be completely honest with this post. at the end of the day, we need honesty, accountability, and honestly, to open our fucking eyes.

I am well aware of the drama that has been ongoing for months on end, as this is something I have been following for quite some time, too much of my time if I'm being honest. and I know it's the same for a lot of you people.

with that being said, there have been major lows and little highs regarding indi jess. she has lied, bullied, harassed, threatened, emotionally abused, and so much more to so many different people.

They are some of the many flaws she carries with herself on a daily basis. and as some may say, those are some of the traits of her personality.

I am not here to deny or encourage any of the bad behaviours that have been shown by her, with her or around her. but this is more of a reminder that we are all human.Not a storyline. Not a character. It's not something for you to analyse like it’s a TV show

before a lot of you say or think here we fucking go, another indijess supporter, another person who eats the shit out of her ass, you can think that but that's not what this is

I understand we have to call people out, to hold them accountable for their actions, their words, and the bad shit they have done, and I agree on that.

but what people have to realise is that there is a major difference between holding someone accountable to then be doing the exact same things as her, if not worse, to her.

Some of you aren’t just commenting. You’re analysing every move, twisting every word, and turning someone’s life into entertainment like it’s a series you can binge and criticise.

There is a MAJOR difference between holding someone accountable and absolutely tearing them apart like they’re not even human, she is a real person who has to wake up and exist with everything that’s being said about her, the facts, every rumour, every insult, every assumption, ontop of all the things she has done to herself, with those included.

she has to live with her actions, and they will always be in the back of her mind eating at her. There will always be a reminder for her to remember her past, but that shouldn't come from people, bullying her, harassing her, or dissecting her every move because there is no space to do anything and honestly makes you just as bad if not worse.

At some point, it stops being “calling out behaviour” and starts being straight up bullying.

You don’t have to like her. You don’t have to agree with anything she’s done. But sitting there, watching everything she does just to pick it apart piece by piece? That says more about you than it does about her.

We’re all real people at the end of the day. All capable of messing up, all capable of growing. And none of us would handle thousands of people dissecting our lives the way some of you expect her to.

Say your piece if you need to

but you all need to remember there’s a line. And a lot of you crossed it a while ago.

The moment you start doing the same harmful things you’re criticising, you lose the point completely.

We’re not in a position to punish people through cruelty or constant harassment. That doesn’t create growth it just creates more damage.

If you care about accountability, then it has to be fair, balanced, and done in a way that still recognises someone is a human being who can learn and change.

You don’t fix wrong by doing more wrong.

As someone who has also gone out of their way to try and hold someone accountable in the wrong ways, I can assure you, it gets you nowhere, it only makes you realise you're just as bad as the person and makes you a shitty one. if you don't see it like that, learn, grow, and touch some grass. After you've found your true self, if you're still like that, you're just a shitty person.