AITAH I (25)f My(26F) "GF" threatened me with a lawsuit because I finally told her to "get the hell out of my life."
Let’s begin from the beginning. I met this girl online. As a private person, I prefer to buy my cigarettes at the supermarket when it’s empty to avoid judgment. She used this to label me a “coward.” She made me feel like I had to “prove” my strength by being her constant financial and emotional support. She claimed that her conservative family was forcing her into an arranged marriage and that she was “too scared” to meet me.
I tried to make things safe. I suggested that she park her car near mine at the coffee shop and that she didn’t even have to get out. I waited with roses. However, she never showed up. While it’s understandable that she’s not obligated to meet me, why would she want me to meet her if she doesn’t want to? I know English better than her, and she asked where people buy edibles in my hometown. I was confused because if she wanted edibles, it meant she wasn’t forced into the marriage. She always tells me that she wants a millionaire. I honestly said, “If you want a millionaire, okay, but don’t say that to me because it hurts me.” She also mentioned that her ex-boyfriend gave her $500 and more. Finally, I told her, “If you’re not happy with me, you can leave.” She eventually told me that she was happy with me.
One day, I was angry and blocked her. I unblocked her, and she told me she would get back with me if I gave her $200. I gave her the money because I was so scared that she would leave me and desperate. We got back together, and I was planning my birthday. I told her that I would book a hotel to stay there and relax. However, she accused me of cheating. I assured her that I would never cheat on her.
One day, I was busy taking care of my cat and forgot to inform her that I was occupied. My girlfriend would accuse me of cheating if I didn’t respond to her immediately. She also threatened to leave me if I didn’t buy her a luxurious bag. I pleaded with her not to leave me.and my gf wished d//th on my cat that was the final straw
She didn’t leave, but I began to realize that she was manipulating me. I blocked her on all platforms. Then, a random number appeared on my messages, and she threatened me with legal action. What she didn’t know was that my sister is a lawyer, and I had done nothing wrong. I told her to stay away from me and never contact me again and to get the hell out of my life
Posted Apr 6, 2026, 1:28 PM UTC · locked