AITAH for eating my own Easter candy
I am 17, and all the adults are over 50
So over easter, we had a braai, I baked a cake, and my father and grandparents brought me some easter goodies, some gummies, and chocolate.
During the braai on Saturday, all the adults got really drunk (I dont and never will drink), and of course, we were eating all the sweets and chocolate. My mother decided she was going to bed early, and she took my entire jar of sweets, and i didnt notice until the next day.
So in the morning I saw my jar of sweets on the table, so without thinking much of it, I took it and went to my room to munch and watch some yt while I recovered from the previous night.
My mother came in with a rage, insulting me for eating my own sweets, commenting on my weight, and complaining abt how I took the jar.
To me, this is not that big of a deal, i wouldnve shared today if she had asked. I shared yesterday that the sweets were already stated as mine.
I feel bad now, i dont think im the AH, but she is hungover and upset, and I did take it without asking, and I said sorry a few times, but I feel I should actually go give it back and say sorry properly. I dont even want to eat any of it anymore. I do not know what to do.
Posted Apr 6, 2026, 1:29 PM UTC