28 | Finland/anywhere | spiritual masc girl looking for genuine connection. Friendship first and let's see if we match romantically.

Heyoo. So I'm looking for something genuine and long term. I like to start as friends and really get to know you. I'm sort of demisexual not entirely sure but like I need that emotional connection to feel attracted to someone. sometimes it happens fast, sometimes it takes time. so idk yall. But just saying that I'm not like oh yes let's start flirting right away. I've never liked that and to me personally it feels shallow and ingenuine like you don't even know me who you flirting with, the wall? anywho ahem XD

So I'm a masc presenting gal but I'm pretty fluid like I'm masculine, I'm feminine, I'm anything I wanna be. I don't like boxes, but when it comes to my looks I'm definitely masculine. I'm pansexual and I live in Finland. My mother tongue is Finnish but I speak English every day so it comes more naturally to me.

Personality wise I'm calm, grounded, observant, pretty blunt and intense/fiery. I'm also sweet and loving when I'm close to someone. I'm either bold or shy depending on the situation. I'm also very principled and my values are important to me and having good character.

In terms of my values I'm about living slowly close ro nature, I don't like social media, I value having community and deep connection, I'm a big big feminist and women's empowerment is close to my heart. and of course lgbt rights and anti racism etc. Being kind and respectful are the foundation of my values. I also like to use clean language and don't like vulgarity much. I value having a certain sense of class. Basically I don't get along well with very crass people. I also don't like the mindset of oh I'm 30 I'm so old now like the 20s was the height of your life.

my goal in the future is to work for myself and own my own business. Most likely will study theology soon since spiritual stuff is the only stuff that interests me in university.

Spirituality is a big part of my life. I'm interested in manifestation, shamanism, animism and witchcraft. I also practice tarot.

I'm substance free and it's important to me. I don't want people around me who smoke or drink. I'm fine if you drink occasionally and you want just friendship. but my partner can't be into any sort of substances, smoking, drugs, alcohol.

In terms of my other interests I'm into fitness and I also like to work out by working on the yard chopping wood, carrying stuff etc. I also game a bit but mostly cozy games. I love reading about spirituality, psychology and business stuff.

One thing I wanna say is I genuinely don't have interest in your height, if you're working/studying rn etc. What I'm interested in is your character and what values you hold. to me that's what makes a mature person I wanna hang around. not your titles etc. I also don't care if you're masc or fem or whatever. I usually have been into masc women tho. I'm open to all kinds of energies/aesthetics.

I also don't mind what country you're from but you should know most likely I'm not willing to relocate from Finland since I love living here .

I'm also allergic to cats so that's probably not gonna work if you have cats.

so hit me up if you wanna chat:)