I love when people assume bad things about me, for not discussing certain topics or having an opinion.

They're hypocrites. I can guarantee they don't read a multitude of textbooks, to learn as much information as possible. Relying on articles is nothing. I read many things for information, but not for discussion or debate.

If they want to feel bitter, fine, but their beliefs are not important enough to be tolerated in a relationship or friendship. (I spent 3 years with someone bitter, and she was miserable. My own fault.)

Speaking from experience, it's best to find someone who actually makes others happy, as you do for them.