Has anyone here experienced a really long bi-cycle, like several years?

Has anyone here experienced a really long bi-cycle, like several years?

I’m asking because I’m trying to understand whether it’s possible for a bi man to go through a long period where attraction to women feels very weak or almost absent, and then later it comes back again.

I’m especially curious if anyone has experienced:

  • a phase of several years where men felt dominant
  • then a return of romantic and/or sexual interest in women
  • and then maybe another shift later on

How did you make sense of it without jumping to “maybe I was never bi at all”?

I’d really appreciate hearing from people who’ve had longer cycles, not just changes over a few days or weeks.

Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:16 AM UTC

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