Did I just get hoovered?
At the end my ex and I got into a huge fight. It was all the typical things, he got me to engage despite my best attempts to ignore. I blocked him. Venmo requested him for some money. Washed my hands of him.
That was my mistake. He sent me multiple emails (stupid me didn’t think to block his email. He has multiple) and I gave in because I was worried about him.
He did all the things: he’s sorry, he loves me, blah, blah, blah.
BUT he’s not going to get help.
Just one giant manipulation. Words without action.
But when I told him I can’t talk to him if he’s not going to get help he said “I understand. I wish you the best”
But why do I feel manipulated? Why do I feel like another shoe is going to drop?
Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:16 AM UTC
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