Gay/Straight friendships

I’m a gay guy who has a close circle of straight friends. I had always been able to joke around with them, even play flirt and it not be an issue- we’ve been friends now for 20 years if not longer. One of these friends is my closest and one time I crossed the line in a text with him, and the next morning he was really upset but confronted me about it- I was so upset that I upset him, I apologised and just said over and over again how it would never happen again, and I meant it. That was a while ago (few years back) and I’m asking the straight guys; if that happened with you, would you be able to forgive and continue as normal or would you feel like you had to change your boundaries with that gay friend?

Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:20 AM UTC

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