Acche friends kahan milte hain ji ?

Guys I will be honest I am bit emotionally avoidant person who is preparing for jobs and I had many friends but few of them are kinda too introverted that they don't talk much and few are too irritating for me who texts full day Good afternoon, good morning,random updates of daily life. I want to become a good friend but I don't have energy to talk with my friends full day and if someone message me constantly it just irritates me . I like a kind of friendship where as a friend we help each other without being too clingy and without messaging full day . With this mindset will I ever get a good friend in life ?

Pata hai aaj kya hua