Should I attend his yoga class?

I walked into one of my favorite places and saw a cute bartender I haven’t noticed before. I’ve been traveling a lot and didn’t get out as much over the last few years. I broke up with my partner of 6 years in September last year. I’ve had lots of hookups since then.

I found out from my neighbor that my ex had a new girl move in a week after I left. So that night I went out and flirted with this bartender I just met. He flirted back and he got my number from a mutual friend after I’d left. He asked if I wanted to hook up a day or two later and I said no. I found out we have a lot of mutual friends and that he’s also a fitness instructor - which I’m super into.

This was about 2 weeks ago. Some light flirting since then but mostly we’ve left each other alone. He teaches yoga on the weekends at breweries where you do yoga then get a beer afterward.

My question is would it be too big of a move to just show up at his class? Would it freak him out? I don’t want him to think I’m obsessed or anything. I’m not, I’m curious about him and want to get to know him better. I don’t want to just be his hookup buddy, I think there might be some more there but I don’t know.

Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:22 AM UTC

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