Is it common to have a few dates with someone, have obvious chemistry and connection, then have a sex filled intimate weekend with lots of opening up and sharing. And then have the other person say, they like me, but don't see this becomng a relationship?

I just want to know if my expectations are normal in this case.

I had 6 dates with this girl, we obviously like each other, but were meeting up platonically because we both admitted we weren't ready for a relationship.

Then Saturday night happened, we got drunk and started kissing and jsut couldn't stop, we ended up going back to my place and kept fucking all night, like we did it 5 times.

Then during day once again, then at night again, and then the next day again. So 8 times over 36 hours.

We have so much chemistry it's insane and we're extremely open with each other, liek we've both told each other things about our lives that no one else knows. She's also saying I'm the best sex she's ever had blah blah blah.

But at the ned of it she's like, "me and you aren't gonan work ok, you've got too many red flags"

Btw my red flags are that she thinks i'm a fuck boi but i'm really not, I just happen to have a few FWBs, but I've literally only had 7 sex partners in my life (would have been more but i was married for 10 years).