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Is feeling genderless on the inside technically being non-binary?

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Hello. I am a 22 year old AFAB. I've always identified as a woman, and that is also how I present to other people. I do not wish to be treated differently or anything.

However, ever since I became a conscious human being, I haven't actually FELT like a woman. I know my body is biologically female, I know I am seen as a woman, but on the inside, I've never really cared. I feel genderless on the inside. I identify with the experience of being a woman but I know that who ME is, is not a woman, but more like an entity that takes the shape of one.

I think the best way I can put it is I feel like Crowley or Aziraphale from good omens- they are both not actually human, and therefore do not have a traditional gender identity and cannot really identify as any gender, but they present as male. I'm not saying I am a celestial entity but I hope this was a good example haha!

So my question is, is it normal to feel like that, even if you don't identify as non-binary necessarily? Or does that actually make me non-binary? I'm asking out of mere curiosity to see if anyone can relate, and to feel less alone in my thoughts.

Thank you!

Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:26 AM UTC

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