Are these normal reasons for wanting kids?

Answers from Men Only:biceps::snoo_thoughtful:

I’m asking men specifically because someone Ik told keeps telling me his reasons are completely normal and that I’m just being a “modern/woke woman.”

I don’t want children, but his reasons for wanting them are:

• All his friends will have kids

• My boobs will grow so he’ll be more attracted to me

• My body will be “ruined” so only he would be sexually attractive to me

• He wants to prove he’s a man and specifically wants a daughter because girls are better kids (but also wants a son)

He doesn’t really talk about parenting, raising a child, or responsibility mostly these reasons. He insists this is how men normally think.

So I genuinely want to ask: men, are these actually normal reasons for wanting kids?

Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:34 AM UTC

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