Being neurodivergent as a very soft submissive:

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Hey everybody.

I hope we've all been well ♥️

I would love to connect with others who have gone through a similar experience and hope to feel a little less overwhelmed.

I've made some previous posts in this group about being a submissive who is very soft, sensitive, and certain things that are even in softer dynamics, can trigger me. (Hence calling myself a very soft submissive) Please don't think I am kink-shaming anyone in any way. This is just me and my preferences.

Over the past week, with lots of reflection, I have realised that there is a very high chance that I have Level 1 ASD. Particularly around emotional regulation and sensory difficulties. And I think this is why I am very sensitive and need a lot of understanding in processing certain emotions. While I would love to be in a kinky relationship, there would need to be a lot of empathy and a huge emotional connection.

While I know there are neurodivergent people in the kink community. Hearing about anyone's stories and experiences (doms and subs) would mean the world to me. Particularly as this is something so new that I have recently discovered about myself. Hopefully one day I will have the relationship I want so much.

Thank you all 💜

Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:35 AM UTC

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