36 [M4F] #Essex #Suffolk Sadist looking for a play partner

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Hello all,

The TL;DR: It is as simple as it is in the title. I am a fairly average looking, very tall and well mannered sadist looking for a play partner.

The more nitty gritty detail: I am 6'4", tattooed, generally well kept and average looking man. Bit of salt'n'pepper in the sides, little battered from hard work but I really do believe average covers me best. Built a little like a string bean which is one of the draw backs of being rather tall

but I have strength in my athletic frame.

I am a big believer in good manners (In and out of a scene) and I do not suffer rudeness well. I like to think I'm relatively intelligent but also believe that doesn't make a great deal of difference to most day to day interactions, however it wouldn't go a miss to be able to have a somewhat intellectual conversation. Importantly I have a partner who is aware I'm looking for play partners so any situations that may arise will be purely sexual or platonic, there is absolutely no risk of it becoming a relationship in the traditional sense.

My sexual appetite covers a fairly wide and diverse group of kinks and fetishes, with my main enjoyment coming from anything sadistic. While I would love a masochost i also appreciate that is rare and would enjoy a "regular" sub almost as much. I have very few limits so whatever your tastes may be then there's a high chance we have an overlap. My only instant nos are scat and any scene in which I am not the dominant one, outside of that most things are fair game.

Ideally I'm looking for a play partner who wants to play over a long period of time so we have an opportunity to build a proper relationship, but also someone who doesn't require my full attention 24/7 as my home life and my partner are my main priority.

I'm an open book, and I have fet if you'd like to check me or my partner out further. Happy hunting folks.

Posted Apr 7, 2026, 11:35 AM UTC

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