Convince me not to buy marble countertops

Exactly that. I’m obsessed with how they look, but I am so scared of how they’ll hold up! Any pics—positive or negative—are welcome!!!

For context, my perimeter cabinetry is a soft white and my island is a dark stained oak. I’ve been trying to find a quartzite that works well, but I haven’t found anything warm/neutral (don’t love Taj Mahal for myself). Bonus points if you have recs!!